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5 Ways to Raise Self-Sufficient Children | MomsGetReal

MomsGetReal Guest Contributor Dixie Somers

One of the biggest complaints about children today is that they are spoiled and don?t know how to take care of themselves. What can you do to teach them how to be self sufficient? Follow these five tips to help raise kids that can take care of themselves.

Let Them Do What They Can

The lessons they learn early in life can really affect them later. Even when they are young, let them accomplish what they are capable of doing by themselves. For example, little ones can read themselves, brush their hair and, as they get a little bit older, bathe themselves. Encourage kids to take responsibility for themselves and have them learn new ways to take care of themselves.

Put Away Baby Items

No need exists for your ten year old to still be using a sippy cup or a fork made for babies. If you treat your children as though they are little babies, then they are sure to act like ones. Let them use grown-up utensils at the kitchen table while they are eating. The exception to this will certainly be steak knives depending upon their exact age. Let them pour their own drinks and cut their own food when they are able.

Schoolwork is for Them

Self-sufficient KidsMany parents are spending countless hours working on their children?s school projects with them, and this is really not necessary. The teachers want to see what the children are capable of doing, and they can generally tell when a parent has put an excessive amount of work into a project. Of course, if they ask for help, you can guide them toward the resources for finding their own answers. However, you should never take control of a project. Give guidance and help when requested, but push them to use and implement their own ideas.

Getting a Job

Once your children are into their teenage years, you really should encourage them to get a job. Maybe the family does not need the extra money. Even if you could easily pay for all of their expenses, getting a job teaches kids not to be spoiled and to work for what they want. Furthermore, it might open them up to new possibilities for careers down the road, experience with the difficulties of a work environment, and friendships.

Independence in College

Once your children are in college, they really should be moving toward financial independence. Whether they are paying for storage units, like Rialto CA storage units, to hold all of their larger items while they live in dorms or are paying for their college tuition, they need to be contributing money to their own expenses in some way.

When children do not learn how to be self-sufficient from an early age, they can become overly dependent on their parents and other people in their lives. Be sure to teach children the necessity and joys of relying on one?s self.

This article was written by Dixie Somers on behalf of extraspace.com. To learn more about storage units in Rialto, CA, visit their website.

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Lewandowski says decision on future in summer

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updated 8:48 a.m. ET Feb. 6, 2013

FRANKFURT, Germany (AP) -Borussia Dortmund striker Robert Lewandowski says he will decide on his future once the season is over.

German media reports have linked Lewandowski with a move to Bundesliga rival Bayern Munich.

Lewandowski tells Sport-Bild weekly that the subject has "to cool off" and that "we'll talk after the final match of the season and we'll see."

The Poland striker says his decision will come after consulting with his agent and considering all offers.

Lewandowski has scored 13 goals this season and has another season on his contract with Dortmund.

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(AP) ? As he prepares to announce a new wave of Cabinet and other senior posts, President Barack Obama is aiming to put a more diverse face on his administration ? an image that was missing as he filled the first round of vacancies of his second term with a parade of white men.

Obama is said to be looking at women, Latinos and openly gay candidates for top slots at the departments of Commerce, Labor and Interior, and for his own White House budget office.

The leading candidate for nomination to be secretary of commerce is Penny Pritzker, a long-time Obama ally and big-money fundraiser from Chicago, according to people familiar with the White House selection process. The top candidate to lead the White House Office of Management and Budget is Sylvia Mathews Burwell, who was a former budget, White House and treasury official in the Clinton administration and is now the president of the Wal-Mart Foundation.

Both women, if nominated, would replace men, bringing business and government experience to the jobs and helping rebalance the male dominance of Obama's early nominations at the State Department, Treasury and the Pentagon ? the three top posts in the Cabinet. In addition to selecting former Sen. John Kerry for secretary of state, Jack Lew for treasury secretary and former Sen. Chuck Hagel for defense secretary, Obama last month also nominated John Brennan to be CIA director. Then he appointed Denis McDonough as his new chief of staff.

The initial series of personnel decisions stood out not only because the posts are so high-profile, but because Obama has pledged to bring a racial and gender mix to his administrative team. Obama also chose Kerry to replace Hillary Rodham Clinton, who had been the most high-profile woman in the Cabinet, after weighing whether to nominate U.N. Ambassador Susan Rice to the post.

Moreover, the president won a second term last year thanks to a broad coalition of women, Hispanics and other minorities.

Besides Commerce and the White House budget office, Obama is also looking to fill top vacancies or openings at the departments of Labor, Interior, Energy and Transportation, and at the Environmental Protection Agency.

Obama and his aides bristle at the suggestion that the president is reversing his own diversity advances and say any criticism is premature and does not take into account his efforts in other areas of government, particularly in his nominations to the judiciary. Also, about 50 percent of White House employees are women.

In filling the job of labor secretary, Obama is expected to nominate a Hispanic to replace Hilda Solis, a former California congresswoman and a Hispanic. Among those considered for the spot is Tom Perez, the assistant U.S. attorney general for civil rights and a former secretary of Maryland's Department of Labor, Licensing and Regulation, according to people familiar with the process. Some in the labor movement have pushed for John Perez, the speaker of the California Assembly and former labor organizer, and the National Hispanic Leadership Agenda has proposed the White House consider Rep. Linda Sanchez, D-Calif., a former labor lawyer.

Among the names under consideration for interior secretary is John Berry, the current director of the Office of Personnel Management and a former senior official at the Interior Department. He is the highest-ranking openly gay official in the government.

White House officials caution that no final decisions have been made.

Obama clearly is sensitive to the image that his selections create. At a news conference last month, the president argued that in his first term women were particularly influential in his foreign policy and in his signature health care initiative. He noted that his secretary of homeland security is a woman, Janet Napolitano, and that he nominated two women to the Supreme Court.

"People should expect that that record will be built on during the next four years," he said at the time. "But I would just suggest that everybody kind of wait until they've seen all my appointments, who is in the White House staff and who is in my Cabinet, before they rush to judgment."

In reassembling his White House staff two weeks ago, Obama elevated legislative director Rob Nabors, who is African-American, to senior adviser and named Jennifer Palmieri as his communications director.

The attention to the composition of a president's Cabinet and to the inner circle that advises him not only serves political purposes but helps introduce more views to presidential decision making and provides a symbolic mirror to the country.

"People speak specifically about looking carefully at what President Obama is doing and holding him to a certain standard, but I think the bigger reality is that going forward every president will be held to that standard, or should be held to that standard," said Karen Finney, a Democratic strategist who worked in the Clinton White House. "You want to have a staff that reflects diversity. Different perspectives around the table help make better decisions."

If Obama selects Pritzker for commerce, he will be choosing a businesswoman who is well-known in Washington and is held in high regard within groups such as the Business Roundtable. Pritzker was Obama's campaign finance chairwoman in 2008 but took a lower profile in the re-election campaign. Obama picked her to be one of 16 members of his Presidential Economic Recovery Advisory Board in 2009, and when that board expired, Obama included her in his 26-member Council on Jobs and Competitiveness.

She is an heir of the Pritzker family that founded the Hyatt chain of hotels. Her name emerged in late 2008 as a potential commerce secretary, but Obama eventually tapped former Washington Gov. Gary Locke.

Burwell, if confirmed, would assume the leadership of the Office of Management and Budget as Congress and the White House struggle over fiscal policies, including Obama's demand for deficit reduction through a mix of spending cuts and higher tax revenue. Burwell was chief of staff to Treasury Secretary Robert Rubin during the Clinton administration and served as deputy OMB director under Jack Lew, the current treasury secretary nominee.

Before taking her job at the Wal-Mart Foundation in 2011, Burwell was the president of the Gates Foundation's Global Development Program.

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